thanks Fez
my kids only get to play on weekends or vacations and only kids games like MARIO/SONIC/SKYLANDERS and Little Big Planet.
they can choose what to play since i buy them pretty much everything.. PS3, Wii, 3DS (NO 3D) and tablets games.
Books they can read anytime they want and i'm so happy that they like books so much (not like their dad )
i'm not sure but we got like 500 books (and just last week i had to order another 50 books from amazon)
my wife loves books and she use to play a lot of games so i don't think video games will have much
impact on your child... as long as you don't let your kids play for 10 hours a day